
A stolen glance, a passionate embrace, a music set montage of playful dates. These are all the 'hallmark' moments of the traditional Hollywood romance. But these moments are redefined, stripped back and then crushed in a subtle anguish in Derek Cianfrance's Blue Valentine. Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams star as the flourishing/decaying couple Dean and Cindy whom meet, fall in love and then fall out of love, but what sets this apart from many other cookie cutter, run of the mill romances is the honesty, often brutally bleak and unflinching portrayal of human emotions.
Like Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind which showed the end of the relationship at the beginning and the beginning of the relationship at the end, Blue Valentine starts with the fleeting hours of the couple, all the nasty elements that come from years of resentment and disappointment and then alters through a series of flashbacks to the first blooms of their romance, the sparks that fly through their first encounter. The film begin a rhythm of shifting from one time period to another, juxtaposing the sour present with the bittersweet past as the pair make a last ditch attempt at their fledging romance with a night in a motel, staying in the 'future room' (a symbol of their relationship and also the disillusion of what advance society would be). In one climatic scene we see Dean and Cindy in a final embrace, intertwined with the couple getting married, making the film all the more heartbreaking as we long for the past to be present again.
Ryan Gosling has been treading through indie waters for some time after the over sentimental swooning of The Notebook, shows why he is the go to guy for the thinking person's leading man, showing an impulsive sporadic nature, yet all the while maintaining a delicate tenderness. Michell Williams meanwhile has shown she can depict downtrodden yet spirited with uncanny astuteness in films such as Brokeback Mountain and Wendy and Lucy, she is at home in the independent film where she excels with vulnerable, raw, passionate performances.
Shot through with an accurate eye that still retains a dreamy aesthetic, without being overly mawkish, Derek Cianfrance creates a wholly believable picture of the fragility of love, his direction infringing on awkward angles and uncomfortable close ups, that the camera shows his two leads sometimes in uncomfortable lights should be praised for the realistic nature that it constructs and the authenticity that Gosling and Williams bring to their roles.
Blue Valentine may be a thorny watch to bear, but it is one that reminds us that beyond the Hollywood gleam, love stories, even those with moments of beauty and grace, do not always have happy endings. We must remember that love is a many splintered thing and can only hope that we can weather the storm and keep it alive.






Whip It! tells the story of Bliss Cavendish (Ellen Page) an awkward teen whose pushy mother (Marcia Gay Harden) makes her compete in Beauty Pageants but longs for something different. That something different comes in the form of Roller Derby in the neighbouring town. Bliss finds herself drawn to this tough girl sport and taking on the alias of Babe Ruthless, becomes the newest and fastest member of the Hurl Scouts team, but the ride is bumpy as she drifts apart from her best friend, has a brief flirtation with a muso crush and traverses her domineering home life. As Bliss/Babe Ruthless discovers her way in the Roller derby arena and in turn, her place in life, she tells her mother ‘I am in love with this’ and my own heart sang with the refreshing declaration of worship for something other than a mans affection (this is second fiddle in the film compared to Derby), which is the usual fare for a ‘chick flick’. The strong female vibe, funky monikers and skating action, embellished with eyeliner war-paint and coloured hair was an intoxicating combination and I left the cinema trying to use my feet as skates and coming up with my own derby name, Disgrace Kelly. Since watching Whip It! I have contemplated purchasing a pair of skates again (sans Barbie who doesn’t fit the pro female image), held my own Whip It! themed party (try it, its oodles of fun) and downloaded the soundtrack to motivate me as I jog. I have also researched into roller derby possibilities in my area as this past-time has taken off in the UK since the release of the film and has recently been recognized as a sport by the British Roller Sports Federation with a Great Yorkshire showdown taking place annually right on my doorstep! As the coach of the hurl scouts Razor declares in training ‘There is a lot more to Roller Derby than picking a tough girl name’ I will have to wait and see if this reignited zeal actually bears fruition but whether I don those skates or not, it does not take away the fact that I am constantly delighted and amazed at cinema’s power to evoke a myriad of emotions in people and instill this girl with the glee and musings of a secret life as a Derby queen.